Kiddush Policy – Aish Kodesh
Mazel Tov, Mazel
Tov!!
Whether you are
going to set up your own Kiddush or hire someone to do it for you – we are
happy to present the following Kiddush Policy/Guidelines to the Kehillah.
Confirm the
Date:
It is
preferable that you e-mail Rebbetzin Shapira to confirm if the shul is available for the date
that you would like. dobashapira@012.net.il Alternatively, you can call her at home at
999-4397.
Inside or
Outside:
The location
of the Kiddush is determined by the weather and your own preference. Generally
the women’s Kiddush is held in the Ezras Nashim. The men’s
Kiddush is generally set up outside in the front parking lot, weather
permitting. If you have a particular preference
or special needs please discuss it with the Rebbe.
Amounts:
Please plan on
enough food/drink/supplies for 120 men and 40 ladies. Please take into
consideration the number of guests you will be having from outside the shul and
add accordingly.
Paper
goods:
Please ensure
that there are small plates, serving plates, cups, l’chaim
cups, napkins (specifically for the ladies’ side), plastic ware and disposable
serving ware, or anything else that will be necessary depending on your menu
selection. Remember that if you are
serving cholent, you will need to provide large
serving bowls, if you are serving kugel you need
serving platters, etc.
Drinks:
A good rule of
thumb is one bottle of drink for every 4 to 5 people. If it is a warmer day,
then probably 4 people per bottle. A mixture of sodas, juice drinks and water
is suggested. Please bring 2 bottles of grape juice for Kiddush.
Food:
The menu
choices are at your discretion. Most simchos consist
of drinks, herring, and assortments of crackers, cake and kugels.
Don’t forget to bring toothpicks for the herring. Please be sure NOT to serve ANY PRODUCTS
WHICH CONTAIN PEANUTS OR NUT PRODUCTS as there are shul members who are
severely allergic to these items. For
example, do not serve Bamba or other peanut snacks.
Hashgachos:
The Rebbe
requests that all food and drink brought for the Kiddush are under Mehadrin Hashgachos.
Set Up:
Everything
must be brought to the shul by Friday afternoon. Make arrangements in advance
with the Rebbe or Rebbetzin regarding hot food.
Ezras Nashim –
Please set up all paper goods, tablecloths, etc. before Shabbos. Usually there
is at least one table in the Ezras Nashim. If not, please speak with the Rebbe. Alternatively,
the space can be set up Friday night. If you need this arrangement, please
speak with the Rebbe to ensure that the lights are left on late enough.
All
non-perishable items should be prepared and ready to be served. For example,
crackers can be placed in bowls and left covered downstairs on the table. All
soda and drinks should be placed in one corner of the room downstairs and
opened before Shabbos. Shabbos morning put bottles in the refrigerator for
cooling.
All
refrigerated food, such as herring, should be cut up and prepared with
toothpicks on Friday afternoon, covered and placed in the refrigerator.
Everything
except for the hot food should be prepared erev shabbos to be served and be
ready to go shabbos morning. While we
have a number of energetic mispallelim who
consistently help to serve, we kindly ask that the Ba’alei Simcha be
responsible for setting up and serving.
This means that the Ba’alei Simcha should know who is setting up on
Friday, who is serving the food on Shabbos, who is cutting the kugel, who is scooping out the cholent,
etc. It could be volunteers from the family, from the shul, or hired help from
outside.
Clean Up:
Here
especially, the Ba’alei Simcha need to be responsible for clean up and
setting the Beis Medrash
back up. There are brooms and dustpans in the large upstairs bathroom.
Trash bags are in the drawers near the sink in the Beis
Medrash. Trash bins are located right outside the
shul.
Please
note - if the Kiddush will be outside – it is imperative that the parking lot
area be left just as clean as before the Kiddush, especially out of respect for
our neighbors.
Thank you and
if there are any additional questions please call either the Rebbe or R’